Superfine Apostate

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  Do I suck?

  by wanderlustguy in

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  i mean, how would you really know if you do, in fact, suck as a poster?

  would it be because when you post all the sudden there can be no more submissions?

  can you kill the thread killer thread?.

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  Superfine Apostate

  *rofl* nice one.
  
  i sometimes even hesitate to post to not be the last one on the thread - again.
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  Do I suck?

  by wanderlustguy in

  1. jw
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  i mean, how would you really know if you do, in fact, suck as a poster?

  would it be because when you post all the sudden there can be no more submissions?

  can you kill the thread killer thread?.

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  Superfine Apostate

  you know your thread sucks when more than 50% of the replies are of your own writing. happens to me... :/
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

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  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  oh my... all that "i can't believe you think like that" stuff...
  
  in my opinion i never "cheated" on my wife (even if your books tell you otherwise, mine don't). but even if - big deal. morals are negotiable. i wouldn't judge anyone who enjoyed a hot night with another lady/gent. you never know what's up behind the scenes.
  
  all that "omg, you'll go to hell, and if you got children you'll go to hell twice" is complete bull. lighten up, what's wrong for you is not necessarily wrong for everyone else. that's just the kind of lifestyle our society was pressed into for centuries. that spouses own each other.
  
  as to the wedding vows: we've had all the jehovah stuff in our vows. now that i am an atheist, does that break my marriage? well, you see, in my eyes marriage is not about vows and fancy stuff. it's not about a beautiful wedding either. it's about partners and yes, also friendship - even if another kind. btw, i didn't have anything about cheating in our vows, neither in our contract.
  
  as to friends: i've got different friends for different things. i would talk to one about my financial situation, i wouldn't to another one. i would talk about sex with some, with some i wouldn't. i'd talk about religion with some, with some i wouldn't, including my wife. still i love them with all my heart. all of them.
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

  1. jw
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  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  the points you make may be valid for sexual relations (while some of your points may be questioned though). they don't apply to the broad sense you stuff into the term "cheating" though.
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

  1. jw
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  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  > depends on what you think flirting is.
  
  exactly.
  
  > Why have a spouse/mate, if they don't have your love, trust and respect?
  
  there's a difference between love and games. love is not something you'd steer. you can love someone without kissing, you can kiss someone without loving.
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  Wii or XBOX 360 or Playstation -- which to buy?

  by UnConfused in

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  advice?

  it will be mostly for my daughter, age 11 and she loves horse type games mostly.

  the wii looking interesting of course.

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  Superfine Apostate

  i'd buy a Wii. i don't own one, but it sure looks like a fun thing.
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

  1. jw
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  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  that line being rather dynamic/subjective.
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  interesting. apart from the "i think it's wrong", that's pretty much the case. same goes for the "flirting hard" thingy.
  
  edited to add: i don't need no justification. a definition would be interesting. to elaborate a little more on my own view: i think marriage is not about owning a person.
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  Do all men cheat?

  by Save My Soul in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  a friend (someone i respected a great deal / mentor) at my job has shared some information with me.

  he cheats on his wife.

  wow!!.

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  Superfine Apostate

  so your definition of cheating is doing anything you wouldn't do if you'r partner was there?
  
  i wouldn't post on JWD having my wife looking over my shoulder. is that cheating?
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  Have you ever seen anything strange in the sky?

  by JH in

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  just a while ago, i was looking at the clouds in the dark sky, and i saw a rotating pattern of lights, moving clockwise going left, then moving counter clockwise and moving right.

  it did that for a while, going back and forth maybe 10 times.

  about 100 lights made up this rotating pattern.

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  Superfine Apostate

  disco lights. thy look like UFOs
  
  i once saw an UFO at night but later i found out it was just a crane with lights on top.